Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Big Hero 6 - Vengeance is Mine says the Lord

Big Hero 6
Vengeance is Mine says the Lord
(SPOILER ALERT)



Hiro is a 14 year old genius. He is good with robots but instead of continuing on to university he would rather spend his time in the back alleys betting on robot fights. His brother Tadashi pulls him out of a fight just before the owner of the losing robot tries to beat him up. Tadashi encourages Hiro to use his “big brain” for something more than robot fights. He encourages Hiro to return to school.

Tadashi is successful in getting Hiro to try out for school and he is accepted. But after the acceptance the school catches fire and Tadashi runs in to save his beloved professor. It is believed that both the professor and Tadashi died in the fire.

Hiro is morning the loss of his brother and refusing to go to school when he finds Baymax, the health robot that Tadashi made. Together they find that there is a supervillain that caused the fire and stole the technology that Hiro made. Hiro adds to Baymax’s programing and hopes to use him to catch the villain and exact vengeance.

Nobody believes that there is a supervillain except Tadashi’s friends, GoGo, Honey Lemon, Wasabi and Fred. They team up with Hiro and Baymax in an attempt to stop the person from causing more damage.

They find out the villain is not the tech mogul they think it is. Instead they find out is the professor they thought died with Tadashi. Hiro realizes that Tadashi was murdered by his professor. Hiro is fixated on killing the professor. He reprograms Baymax and removes the health protocols so Baymax will kill the professor. His friends stop him.

In the end Hiro realizes that the professor is acting out of his own hurt and desire for revenge. The tech mogul had accidently caused the death of the professor’s daughter. In the end Hiro refuses to kill the professor and ends up saving his daughter, who was not dead but lost in a kind of temporal rift.

The Biblical lesson is simple. Don’t go out for revenge. Let God take care of it. In Big Hero 6 the professor is upset thinking his daughter is dead. He goes out to get vengeance on the Tech Mogul that he believes was the cause of her death. In his misguided wrath he accidently kills Tadashi and refuses to take responsibility for his actions. His says, “He should not have run back into the fire to try to save me.” In the end he loses everything. He loses the respect of his students and he loses the chance to see his daughter again once she is rescued.

The Bible verses are:
Romans 12:17-22
“17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay, says the Lord. 20 On the contrary:
If your enemy is hungry feed him;
If he is thirsty give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.’
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”

In other words do the right thing! Do not retaliate unless necessary for personal protection. Be at peace with all, even those that attack you unless you must, for personal safety respond. If you can be kind then do so! Your kindness will burn into their brain and soul in time.

Other verses with the same lesson are:

Deuteronomy 32:35
God talking: 35 It is mine to avenge; I will repay. In due time their foot will slip; their day of disaster is near.

Proverbs 25:21-22
21 If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. 22 In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.

Now for a personal note.

I’ve seen these verses in action. I’ve not responded to outright attacks by people and I’ve let God take care of it. God’s vengeance was worse than anything I could have ever done. I will not go into the exact things I’ve seen happen. Just let me say people that took what was rightfully mine lost what they stole and more without me doing a thing.

Some of these people, after God got to them realized the error of what they had done and how it hurt me and others. They came back and apologized. There was forgiveness and a chance for them to grow as a person and for reconciliation between them and God and us.


I had a person at a job physically and verbally attacking me. Instead of fighting back, physically or verbally. I took steps to protect myself. I let management know what was going on, and they did not care to stop it. I did what I could to defuse the situation by ignoring the person and watching for warning signs of her pending explosive nature. But, when she needed help I gave it. I helped her both on a professional level and personal level without expectation of thanks or personal gain. This left her confused but it also allowed me to live as peacefully with her as I could.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Maleficent - Be Careful of Your World

Maleficent
Be Careful of Your Words and Hate Will Destroy You



Maleficent was a beautiful retelling of a classic fairy tale. This is Sleeping Beauties story told from Maleficent’s point of view. Read further but be aware of spoilers if you have not seen the movie.

At the beginning of the story Maleficent is a young and happy fairy living in the moor. The moor was the land held by the fairy folk. She is strong, powerful and kind.

A young human boy is found at the edge of the fairy land. He had come into the moor looking for items he could sell to better his life. He had taken a gem from a pond. The fairy believed in leaving the gems where they lay. Maleficent stepped in and got him to return the stone and calmed those of the fairy folk that were upset at his “stealing”.

Maleficent walked the boy, named Stephan out of the moor and back into the human realm. As they parted they shook hands. The boy’s iron ring burned Maleficent’s hand! He quickly took off his ring, his only worldly possession and tossed it away so he would not hurt Maleficent again. Maleficent was touched by the boy’s kindness and willingness to toss away his only possession for her safety and comfort. Before they parted Stephan told Maleficent his goal was to live in the castle someday. He had no family and was living in poverty sleeping in a barn.

Maleficent and Stephan became close friends and would often meet to talk. On her 16 birthday Stephan gave Maleficent a kiss and said it was “True Loves Kiss”. Shortly after that Stephan stopped coming to meet Maleficent. Maleficent wondered what had happened to her friend.

Stephan had given into the greed that controlled the humans in that area. The king was greedy and bent on finding a way into the moors so he could take control of the fairies and their land. Maleficent had grown more powerful and lead the fairies in the defense of their land.

The king made a great attack on the moor boarder. Maleficent was there to defend the fairy folk. In the fight Maleficent gravely injured the old king. The king knew he was dying and told all his lords whoever killed Maleficent would become king after he died. Stephan was aid to the king and heard the declaration. Stephan came up with a plan to become king.

Stephan, now a young man, no longer a boy went to find Maleficent. He sat and talked to her about their feeling of the past. He plied her with drink that was drugged and Maleficent fell asleep in his arms.

While Maleficent slept Stephan pulled a knife to kill her so he could bring her head to the king. He could not bring himself to kill the creature he had once loved. Instead of killing her he took an iron chain and used it to burn off her wings! He took the wings to the king and because of that was made king after the old king died.

Maleficent’s heart was broken when she awoke. Her beautiful, strong wings were gone! Worse she had been betrayed by the only human she had ever trusted and yes loved. Maleficent’s heart turned dark with hate. She became consumed with the idea of revenge. Once she found out that king Stephan was going to have a child she planned on cursing the child! She took control of the fairy realm and made herself queen.

Once the child was born a celebration was planned to mark the birth of the new princess. Maleficent attended the celebration and cursed the child. The curse was one of eternal sleep. The only thing that could save the child was “True Loves Kiss”! Maleficent thought it was funny and perfect because she did not believe in “True Love”.

King Stephan sent his precious daughter off with three fairies that offered to raise her until she was 16 and protector from the curse. These three fairies did not know anything about raising a human child. The only reason the baby survived was because Maleficent was following them and watching the child. When the fairies forgot to feed her Maleficent sent in her minion to provide for the child. When the child wondered off Maleficent used her powers to save her.

As time ran on Maleficent could not deny her affection for “the little beasty” as she called her. The days before her birthday Maleficent reviled herself to the child. She tried to reverse the curse but her curse could not be broken. Maleficent came upon the idea of allowing her to live with her in the moor. Sadly this was not to happen. The girl ran into a boy! A young prince named Phillip. When she ran home to tell the 3 aunties that had raised her that she was going to the moor and she had met a boy they reviled the truth. Arora ran to the castle to meet her father.

The spell took hold and Arora fell into her cursed sleep. Maleficent took Prince Phillip in to try to wake Arora. She hoped that Phillip loved Arora enough to wake her but it failed. Maleficent felt shamed for doing this to Arora. She realized that it was wrong. She bent over and kissed Arora on the forehead and Arora awoke! It’s was Loves True Kiss!

Stephan had gone mad. I believe the guilt of what he had done to Maleficent and fear for his daughter drove him crazy. He was so out of his mind he refused to answer the request of his dying queen to come to her. He sat in the dark speaking to Maleficent’s wings that he had locked in a case. When Arora came to him he had her locked up instead of responding to her. He refused to stop with his thoughts of killing Maleficent even though Arora was ok and had awakened.

Arora saw her father’s insanity and chose to trust Maleficent. Arora freed Maleficent’s wings and they flew to her and reattached. Stephan and Maleficent battled and Maleficent tried not to kill him. She saw that Stephan was crazed and she knew if she did not give up her hate she would end up the same way. In the end Maleficent won and Stephan died because he would not stop attacking her.

The lesson I want to share today from this story is a word of caution. Your words have weight and meaning. When you curse someone, say mean and hurtful things or say things to control them or change their behavior it will backfire on you. It is not what you put into your heart and mind that poisons you it is what comes out of your mouth.

In Matthew 15:8-10 Jesus said, “These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. They worship me in vain; their teaching are merely human rules. Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen and understand. What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them.

I believe one of the lessons Jesus was talking about is of thoughts and actions and not so much about food.

We can take in hate and anger and either be consumed by it and spit it out to hurt others, Stephan was. In doing so we are consumed by hate. We can make the choice to take the ugly things that come at us and instead of cursing people (trying to hurt them) we can return love instead. The hate does not have to consume us! We do not have to be poisoned by it. We can choose forgiveness, happiness and healing.

A closing thought. Matthew 5:38-42 Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.

Maleficent learned that she could only win when she forgave Stephan for his deception. She learned love is freeing and true love really exists. This is true! When we forgive we are free to trust others again, not only the one that wronged us bot others as well. True love really exists in the person of Jesus Christ and he can show us how to live in that love as well.


Monday, March 24, 2014

Peter Pan ~ Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust

Peter Pan ~ Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust



Peter Pan is the story of a boy that refuses to grow up and a slightly spoiled girl, Wendy who considers joining him in never growing up in Neverland.

In the story Peter tells Wendy and her brothers, Michael and John that all they need to fly was Faith, Trust and just a little bit of Pixie Dust, and oh yes a happy thought.

As a Christian I believe this holds true to us. First off I believe Jesus wants us to come to Him as a child. Now that does not mean only children can become believers or you must be saved as a child.
Matthew 18:2-4
He (Jesus) said: “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

I believe that Jesus is saying be like a child. So let’s explore what it is about a child. A child is uneducated, uninhibited, selfish and needy. Is that what Jesus meant? I don’t think so. So let’s move on. A child’s mind is open. They are willing to believe the impossible is real and possible. They are amazed by the little things. They are hard to fool (try to do close up magic with a child). I believe that is what Jesus/God is looking for!

Peter Pan wanted to avoid grownup responsibility. That is not what God/Jesus wants. Instead He wants us to have Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust. He wants to be our Happy Thought.

The Faith we need is in Him. The Trust we need is in His provision and the people He places in our lives. The Pixie Dust are the many blessings He bestows on us. He can and should be our Happy Thought lifting us up above the troubles of the world. He lifts us up not to avoid responsibility but so we can be refreshed and face them.

In 1998 my husband was electrocuted in a freak accident. CPR was done for 45 minutes and he was declared brain dead. 36 hours after his accident I was asked to make the decision that no loved one should have to make to take him off of life support to let him die in peace. Knowing his past medical history, faith in God and desire for quality of life I allowed the life support to be removed. I simply placed my loving husband into God’s powerfully loving arms and trusted Him for the best.

Here is where I came to God with childlike faith. I put aside the reality that my husband could not and would not survive or that if he did he would have no quality of life. I trusted that God could do the impossible and waited. I did not demand total healing. I did not tell God He HAD to at least partly heal my husband. I just simply told God I trusted Him to leave my husband here on earth with me or take him home to Glory as was His perfect will. I chose to be at peace no matter what the outcome.

Within an hour of my husband being taken off of life support he was sitting up in a chair talking to the nurses! From a best hoped for outcome of a turn and baste vegetable laying in a bed to a talking and walking man! Is my husband unscathed from his accident? No. He has some short term memory issues and neurological issues, He does remember me, our daughter, family members and close friends and he can hold down his job. We were greatly BLESSED!


Every day I rely on Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust to get me through.

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Cinderella ~ Dreams are Wishes AND Prayers

Cinderella ~ Dreams are Wishes AND Prayers


Cinderella is the story of a girl that is ignored, unloved, forced to act as a servant in her own home. Yet she still dreams of and prays for better days. She works at keeping a good attitude and not being bitter.

Cinderella asks for one thing. She asks to go to the ball. She does not ask to meet and marry the Prince. She just asks for an evening of feeling accepted. An few hours away from her normal dark existence. Yes, she hopes to fall in love and be taken away from her harsh life but would be happy for a few hours away.

When all looks dark and like nothing will work out for her she has her prayers answered! She is given an evening at the ball! Nothing else is promised or asked for. Cinderella is happy and thankful for what she is given.

Surprises await Cinderella! She meets a young man and enjoys the evening with him never knowing exactly who he is. She does not care who he is she just enjoys and is sorry she has to leave. Her shoe “accidently” falls off leaving a clue for the Prince to find her. In the end she finds joy and happiness. Jesus blesses us in unexpected ways.

What do you pray for? Do you pray for the best and only accept what you think is proper for you? Or, do you tell God what you want and let Him decided what is best for you? Would you be happy with what God gives even if it was less than what you asked for? Will you be thankful when God gives you more?

God is not a “Fairy Godmother/father” ready to go “Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo” and grant your every wish. God is more like a real parent that has all the knowledge and wisdom to know what you really need. What you want may not be what you need and God knows the difference and can/will give you just what you need when you need it. He wants to know what is on our hearts. He wants us to share our sorrow and joys with Him. He wants to turn our sorrow into joy. Yet, He understands to grow into the best person we can be we often need to hurt. Growing pains are never fun.

 So how should we pray? Here are some verses that tell you.
Luke 6:27-28
“But I (Jesus) tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”
Cinderella could have wished ill upon her evil step mother and sisters. Instead she did her best to care for them. As Christians we can take that an extra step and pray for them. Ask God to bless them.
Luke 11:2
“And He (Jesus) said to them: When you pray, say, Our Father who is in heaven, Hallowed be Your name, let Your Kingdom come, let Your will be done on earth as it is also is in heaven.”
Luke 22:45
“Jesus said, Father, if You will/choose it, take away this cup from Me; but not My will be done, but Yours.”
In Luke Jesus talks about asking for God’s will to be done not our own. He models that when he is praying before His death. He prays asking for the “cup” or death to be taken away. But, He follows up by saying not His will but God’s.

So, how will you pray? How will you look for the answers to your prayers? Will you pray: God I want my money troubles to go away! Let me win the Lottery! When you don’t win the lottery but are offered a job or more hours at work to make money to you accept it as an answer to your prayer? Will you only accept the lottery win?

Cinderella was ready for whatever blessings she received and she was thankful no matter how small a blessing she found. A new little feathered or furry friend or a special trip to the palace were equally enjoyed by her. She actively looked for her blessings. As Walt Disney said, “Cinderella did not sit at home waiting for the Prince to come to her. She got up, dressed and ready and went to the palace.” Will you get moving and look for/work for your blessings? Will you accept, joyfully the blessings God has for you or fuss because they are not what you thought you needed?


I pray to be a little more like Cinderella and willing to take the blessings as they come and joyfully work for them.

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Disney and Messages of Faith

Disney and Messages of Faith

On January 26th, 2014 an interview with Houston Baptist University, Assistant Prof. Collin Garbarino aired on FoxNews. In this interview Prof. Garbarino stated that Disney’s Frozen may be the most Christian movie of 2013. I could not agree more!

Prof Garbarino stated that the message of Frozen was redemption and that Anna was a personification of Christ as she gave her life to save her sister. Elsa ran from Anna just as we fearful humans run from God. All of that is well and good. He has a very good point.

Prof. Garbarino seemed surprised that Disney’s adaption of Hans Christian Anderson’s Snow Queen would have any spiritual overtones. He must not have read any of Anderson’s work. Anderson’s tales were mostly faith based so any good adaption would have some message of faith in them.

Click here to see the FoxNews story:

As with any Bible verse or secular story you can come up with different ‘messages’ and things to take away. Instead of a story of redemption and Anna being an example of Christ I see Frozen as a call to stop living in fear. Both are valid lessons to come away with. So many of us are like Elsa and frozen by fear. That fear can lead to inaction, broken relationships and in the long run it can lead to us responding in ways we should not.

Click here for my full post about Frozen:

What I really took offense too was Prof. Garbarino stating that Disney did not have any religious or faith based messages in their movies. If you are reading this blog you can see I have a totally different opinion! If your mind and heart are open God can use any tool to reach you with a message! Jesus was a consummate story teller! Think of all the parables the told by Him when teaching. His parables were culturally relevant, secular subject matter that communicated the point He wished to make to those He was speaking to.

I challenge Prof. Garbarino to open his mind and take another look at Disney movies. Pick almost any one and there is a message of faith, hope and redemption for us. Let me share some of what I’ve found.

Meet the Robinsons with its story of being adopted when there is no hope. Is that not an allegory for how God adopts us? Sleeping Beauty is no challenge to find a message of faith in! Stand up to the devil and he will flee! Truth and virtue are the weapons that the 3 good fairies give Prince Phillip. That sounds like putting on the armor of God to me! Ok that covers a “Classic Disney Princess” movie and a 7 year old movie.

How about a newer Pixar movie? Brave can be related to Ephesians 6:1-4. Every Christian parent I know hammers their children with Ephesians 6:1-3 (Kids obey and honor mom and dad or God is going to SMITE ya!) but they ignore verse 4. Most pastors don’t teach on verse 4 but I think it is key to showing our children that they need to obey and respect their elders so they can be blessed by God. Parents also have a responsibility to not do things just to anger or frustrate their child. Merida is a good girl that wants to be herself! She wants to be accepted for who she is with the interests she has. Eleanor wants her daughter to grow up to be queen, regal and proper. She does not understand how important freedom is to her daughter. Eleanor frustrates Merida with her rules until she rebels. Merida needed to follow rules but Eleanor needed to learn to look at if those rules really were necessary or right for her daughter.

In short I think the problem with “educators” and “church leadership” is they often refuse to see the lessons that are there in the secular world and relate it to God’s truth. I believe EVERY story has a lesson to take away. Some you just need to look a little harder to find. Hidden jewels are often the best and most valued.

Do I believe that Disney purposely puts Faith Based messages in their movies? NO!! I just believe God is great enough to speak to us through any medium that will get through our thick skulls!

Links to posts mentioned in this blog:
Meet the Robinsons:
Sleeping Beauty:
Brave:



Pixie’s Faith is NOT associated with the Disney Company, Disney Studio or Disney Family in any way. This is my views of Disney movies and the lessons I have taken away from them. This is a fairly new blog and does not have many posts as of yet but is growing quickly.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Lilo & Stitch ~ You Are a New Creature

Lilo & Stitch ~ You Are a New Creature



Lilo is a lonely, hurting and misunderstood child. She acts out because people don’t know how to relate to her pain and the fact her “family” situation is different than the norm.

Stitch is an alien monster created to be evil. He is designed to seek out large cities where he will back up sewers, reverse street signs and steal everyone’s left shoe. When questioned at the beginning by officials of the Galactic Alliance he is sassy and rude.

Both bite, hit and try to find happiness in their own actions but are very unhappy. Truly Lilo and Stitch behave exactly alike.

In an attempt to help Lilo feel loved her elder sister and guardian, Nani decides to get a dog for her. Instead of a dog Lilo picks an alien creature, Stitch. Stitch plays along with Lilo pretending to be a dog as a way to hide from those seeking to catch him. If he is with Lilo they will not and cannot attack him.

As the story progresses Lilo works hard to teach Stitch how to be a “good citizen”. She shows him his badness level is high for a creature as small as he is. No matter what Stitch does Lilo loves and accepts him. She says he is the newest member of the O’hana (Hawaiian for Family). “O’hana means family. Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.”

Stitch keeps trying to escape but Jamba (his evil creator and person now trying to catch him) is always there making him stay with Lilo. Lilo encourages Stitch to create rather than destroy, care not attack.

Lilo reads the story of the ugly duckling to Stitch and Stitch starts to think about family. He has none because he was created by Jamba. He realizes he wants to change. He wants family and belonging. He feels lost.



In the end Stitch could leave and let Lilo be taken away by aliens. Instead Stitch risks his life and freedom to help her. His behavior is less than perfect but he is trying to be good. When he is finally caught and about to be taken away he simply and calmly asks if he can say good bye to his “family”. He says, “This is my family. It is little and broken. But, it is good.”

What changed Stitch from the evil creature with only destruction as his goal to a loving creature risking it all for his “O’hana”? Love.

What can change us from the selfish, naturally evil creatures we are born to be into a loving, caring person?

2 Corinthians 5:16-19
From now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All this is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to Himself in Christ, not counting men’s sins against them.

God does not want us to view each other or ourselves as we use to. Don’t judge each other or ourselves! If we are “in Christ” (if we accept Him and will realize we are joint heirs with Christ, adopted children of God) we are a new person! The old habits and desires will go away! (No! It is not a magic bullet that solves addiction and bad behavior overnight.)

I believe that as we grow into the realization that we belong to the “family of God” we lose the desire for wrong and the desire to do good grows. We become new creators! Just like Stitch went from craving destruction to desiring to do good as he realized he had an O’hana that loved him and that he loved in return.

Also as we help others learn to do the right things we ourselves learn to do good. Lilo was not a nice, good little girl at first. But, by trying to teach Stitch she learned better behavior and grew. She also learned that her “O’hana”, Nani and David was there for her and accepted the love.



Remember that all it takes is asking to be accepted into God’s O’hana. He loves you no matter what you have done or are doing. His forgiveness is complete and His loving ways transforms us in ways we can never fully understand.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Monsters University ~ What is Your Gift?

Monsters University ~ What is Your Gift? 



In Monsters U Mike and Sulley are in collage, in fact they are going to Monsters University. This is where they meet and at first don’t like each other.

Mike wants to be a “Scarer” (a monster that scares kids for their screams to create the energy to run the Monster World). He does not want to be relegated to the background of “Can Design” or “Door Making”. He has dreamed all his life of going to school and being the best Scarer. He truly is not scary at all. He has the knowledge but lacks the ability.

Sulley is lazy and inattentive. He thinks that just because he is big, imposing and the son of one of the best scarrers he will be the best scarer ever. He thinks he does not need to study and that he knows all he needs to know to be the best scarer ever. He goes half way and does not work to improve himself. He has the ability but lacks knowledge and discipline.

Then there is the Oozma Kappa fraternity, a group of misfits that look like they can do nothing big or special. They have all been told they are incapable, unwanted and worthless. They lack knowledge because they have not been allowed to learn, no one would teach them. They lack courage to try because they have been pushed down. They lack ability because they have never tried. In truth they don’t lack ability they just don’t know what abilities they really have.

Mike refuses to give up his idea of being a scarer. Sulley refuses to study and learn there is more to doing what he is born to do. The brothers of Oozma Kappa just keep trying yet feel like they don’t fit.

In the end Mike learns he is not a scarer, he is a “Coach”. He has the knowledge to give training and direction but lacks the ability to do it himself. Sulley sees he has been a jerk and chooses to let Mike teach him. The brothers of Oozma Kappa get their chance to go to Scare School and see that even they can be more than they think they could.

I Corinthians 12:12-30
Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body-whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free-and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many.
Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not the hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being a part of the body. And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being a part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as He wanted them to be. If they were all one part, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, but one body.
The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.
Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. and God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret? Now eagerly desire these greater gifts.

My husband was told he could not be a mime in High School. His drama teacher said he did not have the ability. He was told by his High School Guidance Counselor that because he is ADHD, even with an IQ in the genius range, “You will be good for nothing but picking up trash and pushing a broom.” He was near completing his education to be ordained as a minister when his father, an ordained minister told him he did not have the ability to teach or speak well. In short he was told he was not good at public speaking. He was very close to being ordained when this happened.

My husband took classes in mime at college and was told he could be one of the best with some focused work on some things. He chose to leave this for a “safer day job”. His day job is Respiratory Therapy. He is hands on patient care and part of the medical team saving lives. It takes knowledge and the ability to think things through to do his job. Janitorial work is important. Without custodians people would have a hard time doing their jobs. But that was not the job for my guy. As for being ordained, he feels ordained into the bedside ministry caring for the sick, elderly and neglected. He is there to give comfort as well as medical care. He is also an educator at the hospital he works at. He teaches patients how to care for themselves and mitigate the problems caused by their health problems. He educates fellow staff members on policies, procedures, safety and new computer programs. He is very good at public speaking and teaching.

We are not all Pastors, Missionaries, Sunday School Teachers or meant to be in leadership at a church. Some of us are there to help set up chairs, usher and just silently pray for others. Be happy where God has placed you with the abilities He has given you. Work at improving them, trusting those that have more knowledge and wisdom to guide you. Let God place you in the Body of Christ and choose where you are. Be happy where He places you and do the best you can.