Monday, March 24, 2014

Peter Pan ~ Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust

Peter Pan ~ Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust



Peter Pan is the story of a boy that refuses to grow up and a slightly spoiled girl, Wendy who considers joining him in never growing up in Neverland.

In the story Peter tells Wendy and her brothers, Michael and John that all they need to fly was Faith, Trust and just a little bit of Pixie Dust, and oh yes a happy thought.

As a Christian I believe this holds true to us. First off I believe Jesus wants us to come to Him as a child. Now that does not mean only children can become believers or you must be saved as a child.
Matthew 18:2-4
He (Jesus) said: “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

I believe that Jesus is saying be like a child. So let’s explore what it is about a child. A child is uneducated, uninhibited, selfish and needy. Is that what Jesus meant? I don’t think so. So let’s move on. A child’s mind is open. They are willing to believe the impossible is real and possible. They are amazed by the little things. They are hard to fool (try to do close up magic with a child). I believe that is what Jesus/God is looking for!

Peter Pan wanted to avoid grownup responsibility. That is not what God/Jesus wants. Instead He wants us to have Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust. He wants to be our Happy Thought.

The Faith we need is in Him. The Trust we need is in His provision and the people He places in our lives. The Pixie Dust are the many blessings He bestows on us. He can and should be our Happy Thought lifting us up above the troubles of the world. He lifts us up not to avoid responsibility but so we can be refreshed and face them.

In 1998 my husband was electrocuted in a freak accident. CPR was done for 45 minutes and he was declared brain dead. 36 hours after his accident I was asked to make the decision that no loved one should have to make to take him off of life support to let him die in peace. Knowing his past medical history, faith in God and desire for quality of life I allowed the life support to be removed. I simply placed my loving husband into God’s powerfully loving arms and trusted Him for the best.

Here is where I came to God with childlike faith. I put aside the reality that my husband could not and would not survive or that if he did he would have no quality of life. I trusted that God could do the impossible and waited. I did not demand total healing. I did not tell God He HAD to at least partly heal my husband. I just simply told God I trusted Him to leave my husband here on earth with me or take him home to Glory as was His perfect will. I chose to be at peace no matter what the outcome.

Within an hour of my husband being taken off of life support he was sitting up in a chair talking to the nurses! From a best hoped for outcome of a turn and baste vegetable laying in a bed to a talking and walking man! Is my husband unscathed from his accident? No. He has some short term memory issues and neurological issues, He does remember me, our daughter, family members and close friends and he can hold down his job. We were greatly BLESSED!


Every day I rely on Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust to get me through.

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Cinderella ~ Dreams are Wishes AND Prayers

Cinderella ~ Dreams are Wishes AND Prayers


Cinderella is the story of a girl that is ignored, unloved, forced to act as a servant in her own home. Yet she still dreams of and prays for better days. She works at keeping a good attitude and not being bitter.

Cinderella asks for one thing. She asks to go to the ball. She does not ask to meet and marry the Prince. She just asks for an evening of feeling accepted. An few hours away from her normal dark existence. Yes, she hopes to fall in love and be taken away from her harsh life but would be happy for a few hours away.

When all looks dark and like nothing will work out for her she has her prayers answered! She is given an evening at the ball! Nothing else is promised or asked for. Cinderella is happy and thankful for what she is given.

Surprises await Cinderella! She meets a young man and enjoys the evening with him never knowing exactly who he is. She does not care who he is she just enjoys and is sorry she has to leave. Her shoe “accidently” falls off leaving a clue for the Prince to find her. In the end she finds joy and happiness. Jesus blesses us in unexpected ways.

What do you pray for? Do you pray for the best and only accept what you think is proper for you? Or, do you tell God what you want and let Him decided what is best for you? Would you be happy with what God gives even if it was less than what you asked for? Will you be thankful when God gives you more?

God is not a “Fairy Godmother/father” ready to go “Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo” and grant your every wish. God is more like a real parent that has all the knowledge and wisdom to know what you really need. What you want may not be what you need and God knows the difference and can/will give you just what you need when you need it. He wants to know what is on our hearts. He wants us to share our sorrow and joys with Him. He wants to turn our sorrow into joy. Yet, He understands to grow into the best person we can be we often need to hurt. Growing pains are never fun.

 So how should we pray? Here are some verses that tell you.
Luke 6:27-28
“But I (Jesus) tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”
Cinderella could have wished ill upon her evil step mother and sisters. Instead she did her best to care for them. As Christians we can take that an extra step and pray for them. Ask God to bless them.
Luke 11:2
“And He (Jesus) said to them: When you pray, say, Our Father who is in heaven, Hallowed be Your name, let Your Kingdom come, let Your will be done on earth as it is also is in heaven.”
Luke 22:45
“Jesus said, Father, if You will/choose it, take away this cup from Me; but not My will be done, but Yours.”
In Luke Jesus talks about asking for God’s will to be done not our own. He models that when he is praying before His death. He prays asking for the “cup” or death to be taken away. But, He follows up by saying not His will but God’s.

So, how will you pray? How will you look for the answers to your prayers? Will you pray: God I want my money troubles to go away! Let me win the Lottery! When you don’t win the lottery but are offered a job or more hours at work to make money to you accept it as an answer to your prayer? Will you only accept the lottery win?

Cinderella was ready for whatever blessings she received and she was thankful no matter how small a blessing she found. A new little feathered or furry friend or a special trip to the palace were equally enjoyed by her. She actively looked for her blessings. As Walt Disney said, “Cinderella did not sit at home waiting for the Prince to come to her. She got up, dressed and ready and went to the palace.” Will you get moving and look for/work for your blessings? Will you accept, joyfully the blessings God has for you or fuss because they are not what you thought you needed?


I pray to be a little more like Cinderella and willing to take the blessings as they come and joyfully work for them.